Easier ways to give pleasure - English

This is a short series written after discussing with several women on various sites and listening to their own experience.

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It is not easy to give real sex or earth shattering orgasm to the woman you love…

But in this article, I will teach you how to make it not only easy but also effortless.

Contrary to what most men think, women think more about sex than men (and they are more likely to hide it)

Women dream of a boy who can give a heartbeat and a shaky orgasm. Girls dream of a boy who knows how to eat her pussy… the right way!

Women are hysterical about sex and are constantly looking for a guy who knows how to eat her, keeping one boy from the other.

So my advice is to make sure you are that guy so she won't look anywhere else.

Then read this article from beginning to end.

The truth is, if you don't know about these techniques, you could lose your girl to a guy who knows this trick…

I'm going to show you how to eat a woman, so you almost guarantee she'll have a sip.

Eating pussy is an art - it's something every man has to learn how to do, or the girl will leave him for a boy he knows well.

Before that you need to prepare your girl in many ways. If you are going to give her a pleasure tonight, tell her in advance or explicitly, that she will get ready for the night's game no matter how tired she is.

Foreplay & Awareness Art

Getting your woman in the right mood is one of the most important aspects of giving her a smile.

Women are passionate creatures, and it's really impossible to give her a hug when she's in a logical mood (like when she finishes her job or gets stressed out).

This is why it is difficult for scientists to ever study female etiology.

It is your duty and responsibility to relieve her, and to direct her so she can forget about the stresses and anxieties of life - this is the forecast.

Unlike men, women take longer to get into the mood. You can probably get an erection and prepare for intercourse within 10 seconds, while women can take half an hour or more.

This is when sexual energy and awareness develop.

Teasing and expectation creation.

Teasing and Foreplay are where the power of ejaculation comes from. Imagine you have a big bucket at the top of the ladder. The bucket holds water, but you must first fill the bucket with water.

Your purpose with the bucket is to make the biggest and most dramatic explosion possible when you decide to push the bucket of water off the ladder.

You can put some water in the bucket and push it later. But the explosion of water will not be so great.

As mentioned above, water is like a female sexual energy. It takes time and forethought to build up, but no matter how long you take to build her energy, the peak of the explosion will be over.

With the information provided throughout this guide, you are guaranteed to learn how to open any woman's sexual desire and how to direct and stimulate her in a way that no other person can.

Chapter 1: The 7 Hot Zones of Female Stimulation

Although sexual turns vary from one person to the next, there are a few areas in the body that are called erogenous zones, which are constantly linked to arousal.

These zones, when properly triggered, can provide unimaginable happiness to your partner.

Fortunately, you do not need to be an experienced lover to understand these places and the pleasures they bring.

Zones 1 and 2 that weaken women: lips and ears

Kisses are an international sign of love - from a simple kiss on the cheek to emotional intercourse, lips can provide you with many ways to show that you love your partner. But did you know that lips are also a point of stimulation?

This is because the lips are one of the most important parts of the exposed body. Just think how many nerves there must be on such a small surface, no wonder the kisses are electrifying!

However, the lips are not the only place above the shoulders and can be used for back-tingling.

These triggers are sensitive to feelings, like a gossip, a small kiss, or a small puff-ear spoken word of warm breath.

From exhilarating tremors to hair-raising tremors, the delicate manipulation of the ears can give you a deeper awareness of your love making. Why?

"There are many nerves in and out of the ear."

These nerves are important for spreading sound, allowing humans to take even slight variations in pressure.

These nerves also serve the purpose of stimulation and close awareness.

Zones 3 and 4 that weaken women: neck and lower back / buttocks

Now, going south, we come to the back of the neck and the lower back.

These sensory areas, which are more agitated when handled with great care, are the best part of sedation and manipulation.

The neck and lower back / buttocks are the closest parts. These zones are hard to communicate with other than individuals, which makes these places extra sensitive and especially erotic.

Also, these places are easily accessible to you, whether you're locked in a sauna or simply passing by in the daytime, and you want to bring your lover some excitement and anticipation later.

Zone 5: Breasts / Nipples

In contrast to zone 5, sensitive zones 1 - 4 seem almost innocent in nature. After all, the lips, ears, neck, and back are normally visible, and should not be seen as a mere pleasure.

Furthermore, while breasts and nipples certainly have their own biological purposes, this sensitive area is one that is primarily linked to the greater part of the world with stimulation and aphrodisiacs.

Here are some tips and tricks for making her climax via nipple stimulation:

Choose the right position: The best position for this sex technique is to lie on her back with her breasts and nipples facing the ceiling. She must be completely naked and comfortable.

Start with a fan: Instead of going straight inside and sucking her boobs, use a fan to gently pour air into her pussy. This creates a lot of anticipation for sucking and making her nipples very hard.

Is her pants / chests hard? Start sucking: If her nipples get hard from the fan, go inside and start sucking them gently. Make sure you pay equal attention to both of her nipples.

Don't be afraid to chew gently: To make the experience spicy, gently brush her teeth with your teeth. It is very important that you soften it, otherwise, it may turn her off.

Throw something soft: Every time, stop sucking and start rubbing her soft (like fur or feather) pussy. This will make the experience more erotic.

Massage her breasts: Make sure you massage her breasts simultaneously while rubbing her breasts. It adds some sort of pleasure and gives her a very powerful hug.

Use oil: If you are going to massage her breasts (which will make her breasts great) we recommend using oil. There are oils specifically designed for breast massages.

Beating: If she enjoys it, gently slap her breasts as you stimulate her nipples. You may be thinking, "But does it hurt?" Believe it or not, some women love this kind of thing.

Use Ice Tumor: Remember we mentioned earlier that blowing on your partner's breasts makes their nipples hard and makes them run? Be aware that you can use ice blocks and / or cooling gels to achieve the same result!

Zones 6 and 7: inner thighs and clitoris

Finally, as you move down the existing belly of the stomach, you can see the last two erogenous regions. The navel can also be played in the chest. This is an important location of the women's senses.

The inner thighs are one of the largest erogenous zones

Clitoris, the most important erogenous zone of all.

The navel, this sensitive and often protected area is suitable for intimate stimulation and can bring your partner to the peak of awareness and excitement.

Temperature game may be just what you are looking for, to increase sensitivity and curiosity.

Apply whipped cream or hot fudge to your partner's navel and then gently lick. A combination of cold / warm and soft, but intentional, nibbles may push your lover's libido into overdrive.

LEGS

While this is definitely a hit or miss place, this is definitely a hot spot to check out your female partner.

When many people think of paws and sexual impulses, they think without a reason.

However, the paws are another part of the body, and one does not have to run one by looking at the feet to find their stimulation exhilarating and stimulating.

Of course, the simplest method of stimulation is a simple erotic foot massage, complete with a moisturizing lotion.

Start slowly, bring your partner's foot to your lap and gently rub the sides and feet.

Gently massage each one individually, toward the toes. Vary on the amount of pressure you use, and explore your lover's most sharp spots.

Do you feel a little more adventurous? Light kisses on the top of her legs, then give each toe a kiss. Then, lower your feet down to her feet and gently spread your kisses to her legs, her inner thighs, and finally her clitoris.

Two Steps Ahead, One Step Back: The Suspense-Building Method to Invoke Her

Inner thighs

If you think your spouse / girlfriend is playing, you may want to try Erotic Electrostimulation (also known as E-Stim)!

The inner thighs are the perfect place for electro-stimulation because the area is large and the nerves differ in sensitivity (becoming more sensitive as you get closer to the pelvic area).

If you start now, start with a small intensity, starting at the outer edges of the thigh where the lowest number of nerves are located.

When your girlfriend / spouse feels that emotion well, move closer and closer to the inner thighs and move up and down the hips. You can often change the intensity and location to further stimulate your partner, and you can even move to other erogenous zones for extended fun.

Now that you have selected some new techniques from the sections above, you may be ready to go.

However, it is important first to quickly remind yourself that the list of erogenous zones and hot spots above is not a list of things to work on, mentally checked one by one.

Just because you start on the scalp and get on your feet doesn’t mean your female partner will be triggered at the end of your journey.

So, what can you do to incite her will and ignite the flames? It’s simple - two steps forward, one step back.

Remember, creating love for your partner is about emotional intimacy and intimacy (if not more) than the satisfaction of biological drivers. The best thing you can do is slow down your time.

Let’s say you start with the ear. You kiss your partner's lap a little too thin, perhaps you even whisper sweet words.

Slowly go to your partner's neck and kiss her hairline until you reach the end. Your partner is showing signs of approval and alertness, so you continue your journey south.

When moving, you reach your partner's lower back. As you gently brush your fingertips with her skin, you notice her arousal rising.

Her breathing intensified and she is close to your touch. This means you have to move on to the most important erogenous regions, such as the breasts and clitoris, right?

Wrong!

The easiest method to follow is to mock your partner. You want to take her to a state of encouragement, but also to lead her to anticipate what is to come.

In the example above, we left the lower back. Now, you can back off the ear and add some extra kisses and a gentle blow of your breath. At this point, she doesn't know what to expect from you anymore.

Expectation develops, so does her level of excitement and awareness.

You can proceed in this manner for as long as you (and, most importantly, your partner) wish.

As you continue cycling to less sensitive but still stimulating zones in your partner's body, you want to slow down to the most important erogenous zones, such as the breasts, inner thighs, and clitoris.

Of course, the more sensitive zones back and forth are not limited, but be sure not to start with too much intensity, as this can be very useful for your partner.

Next up - the most important place ...

Clittoris

You scrutinized your partner's body from the ears to the inner thighs, but now it's more sensitive to the erogenous zones: it's time to focus on the clitoris.

There are a ton of ways to stimulate the clitoris. From digital to oral, and even e-stimulation and temperature gaming, there’s something here for everyone.

So for this particular area, we will focus more on technique rather than instrumentation.

Clitoris is a hood organ, and is actually very similar to penis form. It has a cord, a view, and a paralysis (clitoral hood), and it can swell even when the stimulus is used or arousal is felt.

However, there are two main ways in which this differs from the penis. One is that the penis is 2 times more sensitive than the penis (with nearly 8,000 nerve endings compared to nearly 4,000 of the penis), and two, its sole purpose is to make its owner happy.

Basic techniques for how to eat her pussy

Here are 5 different ways to stimulate her pussy with your mouth.

Each technique has its own advantages and feelings, so you may want to use all the methods at different stages or levels of awareness.

You should also read her reactions to which method she likes the most. Some women have very sensitive vaginas and they prefer lighter methods.

Some women need a strong sense of ejaculation, so you need to start with 1 and 2 before moving on to the rest.

Don't go straight to her vagina. Start by kissing her body, then work your way up. Just tease her. Make every nerve in her body come alive with sexual tension.

1. Blowing

Blowing in her pussy is a great form of alertness, foreplay and seizure. Light, subtle sensation will begin to produce sexual energy and tension (which will be released in a vagina)

Slowly blow her pussy, it makes her shudder. It draws her attention and attention to the subtle feelings she feels in her pussy.

This is what you want. You want her to be more sensitive. Everyone in her vagina will never start shouting.

This sets the stage for other times, which will eventually embarrass her on the edge and shake her body.

1. Licking

Next is licking. You can now begin to use your tongue slowly in her sensitive areas.

It is important to make your movements easy and unpredictable. You still want to tease her. You still want her to look forward to it (as her sexual energy continues to grow.)

Then make her guess about when and how you lick her.

As her sexual arousal level continues to increase, you can now start licking her (and most importantly her clit).

Movement up and down, slowing down is usually the best way around her clit.

Your stroke should vary. Slow and gentle First fast and hard. Always seek out her reactions so you can see or hear what she wants.

1. Kissing

Kissing her pussy is a great way to show how much you care about her. You may not kiss her vagina for long, but you should mix your kiss with other times.

1. Sucking

Sucking is the next stage of pleasure and most women prefer to suck their vagina. Now you can start to stimulate your entire mouth, not just her clit, but her other vagina.

She will soon be ready to rejuvenate as her arousal levels rise, but you need to build more.

Increase suction speed and intensity.

Always remember to tease, go two steps forward, one step back. Suck in her girl bits for a while, then back down and kiss, lick and suck before licking.

1. The last is fast licking.

Relax your lips gently around her pussy. Keep your lips so they touch lightly and then explode, causing your lips to vibrate back and forth.

Many women say this is one of their favorite feelings.

You can change the speed, power and frequency of vibrations by holding your lips tight or blowing hard.

Combine clitoral and vaginal stimulation to ease the peak

The clitoris, of course, is the most important part of her genitalia, not the only place she craves for stimulation.

Therefore, extra attention should be paid to providing both the clitoris and the vagina with equal attention, to give her a body-shaking, wheezing and lamentable erection.

Fortunately for you, there is a well-defined technique for doing so, here it is:

1. Using your hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will give you great comfort, and will keep her steady as she moves away from pleasure.

2. Now, gently shepherd the G-spot with your middle and ring fingers (see Tip # 4 to learn how to find the G-spot), and you're going to put your palm face up and allow her to rest on her clit. (For this to work, you need to kneel or stand up to her.)

3. As your palms are soft and firm, start moving your fingers in the "slide here" movement.

4. Move your hand up and down while stroking the G-spot. This can be a little tricky, but over time, you get the technique right.

5. Ultimately, you want to accelerate your movements. Don't go too fast and hard as you lose control, but instead keep the pace that allows you to continue in a rhythmic movement. Sometimes, it can feel like you are being too tough. But, until your partner enjoys meeting, continue at a pace that offers more stimulation.

6. As she draws closer to her climax, you will notice a sharp inhalation, an increase in moans and squirrels. Keep up the same amount of speed and pressure so your lover (as well as your arm and bed) does not drip from her own ejaculation.

7. As a bonus, once your girl starts beating, hold your palm firmly against her clitoris. This will increase the intensity of emotions and pleasure without causing excessive emotion.

Other positions to eat

There are plenty of levels where you can eat her pussy.

One of the most common and one I have described these techniques is the flexion of the knees on her back and her sitting or lying on her legs.

You can try the doggy position with her (dog level) and eat her from behind.

Closure of the eyes to increase the expectation

One of the best ways to increase anticipation and excitement is to use props.

Because women are so self-confident about sex, especially when they leave the vagina, being blind is a great way to make her feel less self-conscious, and to experience emotions instead.

She also has the added effect of reducing her eyesight, hair to one. When her gaze is turned off, her perception of touch is greatly increased.

She will feel more of the sensations and stimulation coming from her pussy.

It's also a little scary to wear blindly. You will have complete control over her (which is what women want) and her sense of excitement and expectation will increase.

Using a handcuff / belt / tie to motivate her

By handcuffing her to the bed you can take her level of excitement and even go to another level. You can use prosthetic handkerchiefs for your spontaneous feel and tie her hands on the bed using your belt or tie.

This is one of the most exciting, powerful, erotic and loving hugs she has ever had, along with what I am about to teach you.

Finally …

The Key to Sex Life in the Storm of Mind: Communication

Regardless of your current relationship, communication is key to a happy and healthy partnership.

In any case, communication can provide you and your partner a satisfying and exciting sex life.

As mentioned earlier, sexual arousal and sensitive areas vary from person to person. So, are you hitting all the right notes, or how to find them?

ask

This is not the most erotic of the options available, but it is one of the most direct ways you can learn about your woman's likes and dislikes without making assumptions.

Here are some examples of questions to ask before, during, and after your next lovemaking session.

Before intercourse

"How would you like to try [the sexual act]?"

"What do you think of [eyeballs, using handcuffs, a paddle paddle]?"

"Do you want to try anything new tonight?"

During intercourse

"Do you want me to go slow / fast / soft / hard?"

"How does it feel?"

After intercourse

"Did you like it when I did [a certain sexual act]?"

"Was there anything you didn't like?"

Learn to understand your partner's opinion

Asking questions can give you valuable information, and one of the best things you can do for your relationship (sexually and otherwise) is to learn to read and understand your partner's ideas.

This can be tricky, and of course it takes a while. But the importance of this cannot be overstated.

Also, while you are certainly not mentally ill, here are some ways to better understand your partner's sexual views and provide her with a better sexual experience now and in the future.

Facial expressions

Fortunately for you, pleasure and dissatisfaction facial expressions are two things that are not easily concealed or disguised.

So, what signals can you take from your partner's expressions?

Eyes

Pay special attention to your boyfriend's eyes. Eyes are really the windows of the soul, and this is especially true at a time of vulnerability, such as lovemaking.

Does your partner make eye contact with you? Is she starting to make eye contact? When her eyes are closed, are they relaxing? If the answer to the above questions is yes, then your partner is comfortable and, most importantly, open to having fun.

Lips

Given that the muscles around the mouth and lips are so large, it is not surprising that some facial expressions are clearly visible on this part of the face.

It can be used to your advantage and can give you a good idea of ​​how your partner feels during and after intercourse.

During the stimulation of a certain erogenous zone, do your partner's lips squeeze softly? Does her jaw clench as you perform a certain act?

These can be signs of anorexia or dislike, and be sure to look for other tips to get a complete picture of your boyfriend's comfort levels.

When you kiss her neck, her jaw loose, maybe her mouth even open? These are signs of relaxation and, ultimately, pleasure.

Physical Notes

Studying your partner's facial expressions (or dissatisfaction) can indicate signs of immediate and apparent pleasure.

If you're looking for a more subtle way to study your boyfriend's feelings, consider some of these physical tips.

Mewling

One of the most obvious of the physical references on this list is that your partner's lamentations can tell a lot about how they meet (or don't).

Each woman expresses her happiness in different ways, but an attentive partner can distinguish them from those who can be half-hearted and curious.

Pay particular attention to when your partner laments. Was it during a particular sexual act? Is it a lament of motivation, or pure pleasure?

The answers to these questions will help guide you when you answer her and bring her into the hug.

Distance

When your partner wants to be with you physically, sometimes emotional or stress can be excluded from her. There is a way to resolve the rift, but by observing the response he gave to the stimulation of each erogenous zone.

How do you move when your partner is kissing her neck, or licking her belly, or massaging her back?

If she overwhelms you and gives herself up physically and mentally, then the Erogenous Zone is definitely one that will keep her awake.

Continue to explore each lover's body and continue exploring your lover's body until you get a complete picture of what your partner wants.

With your partner's likes and dislikes in mind, you can now start experimenting with different stimulation methods.

Conclusions

The map provided above is not a solution to your relationship with your partner or your sex life. However, what the above guide can do is provide you with the information you need to build a sexual relationship, based on honest and thoughtful communication.

No relationship is one, no person. That is why it is important that you use this guide.

This may indicate that the guide is fragmented and used when you see every bit of information. Or, it may mean that you prepare the guide at once and use all the tips and techniques that will be provided during your next lovemaking session.

Whichever way you choose to use this guide, keep in mind that the ultimate key to unlocking the true sexual potential of your relationship and finding all of your lover's places is communication, honesty, and a willingness to be vulnerable and open.